Families & Friends Of Addicts Support Group

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My cousins are coming over this weekend....

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They are both drug addicts and thieves.... I don't want to see them at all but since my aunt is coming down and staying with us for a week "they got to come over here".... anyway, I can't stand the thought of seeing them.... I don't wanna have to act nice! They've burnt all their bridges one too many times and I don't to see them cause I'm afraid of what I might do.... hopefully I'll get out of the house for the weekend so I don't but is there any advice you guys could give me and dealing with it if I do have to see them? If nothing else pray for me!
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be a better person to them than they are to themselves. being cordial and polite doesn't mean you are forgiving or giving them a free pass or agreeing with their actions/choices.
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I guess I'll have to try but it ain't gonna be easy... maybe I won't have to worry about it though... if I do get out of the house for the weekend I won't
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be the best you if you are confronted with the situation...
i try to remember when i'm 'forced' to be around those i don't like to be around that i shouldn't judge unless i want some fingers pointed at me, and that i should treat them as i expect to be treated...
i know, i know that all sounds very 'perfect world' but it is way easier to be polite and ignore in peace than it is to get all rilled up!
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yea... I guess I'll just have to lock myself in my room for the day cause I'm already gonna have enough of a problem bitting my tounge from going off on my aunt so I don't wanna add to it.
mgs1
mgs1
Depends. Is it your house?
Or your parents house? Why doesn't your Aunt meet them some where outside the house. Like meeting them for lunch or breakfast somewhere? WHy don't you take your Aunt and drop her off at their house? Then you can go shopping and come back and get her. If they are theives I would not want them in my house and I would not hide or leave them there without any supervision.
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its my parents... they dont have a place i think their staying with my uncle but im not sure... im not gonna be here cause im staying at my boyfriends parents... i am locking up my room before i leave though so i have nothing to worry about in my room. thanks god for small miracles! i aint gotta see them!
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