I left my husband a month ago and took our kids, to push him into getting help, at the time his dad agreed to pay for treatment. Well it took my husband at least 2wks to commit to go and when he finally did, his father stated he didnt beleive he really was ready and if he was he needed to prove it by getting into a state run or christian run one himself (something that didnt cost money or something my husband could get in himself) well that was about 2 wks ago and still NOTHING! MY husband still has not gotten into anything! I finally told him he could no longer see and talk to the kids hoping that would work and it has not. I am aware he is an addict and brain is hijacked and I know he is not making good choices and CANT , he never really once went on with out suppoting us financially, and now he cant hasnt even done that! So I am asking myself, is his father making the right decision by waiting for this ADDICT TO get off his ass and get in a program all by himself??????? I always heard if someone wants help give it to them-but his dad says he needs to do it himself!! Is this even possible for him to process this in his brain and DO IT.
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