hi, im new to this group, iv been searching for something like this for a while. iv had a bad year. my now ex fiance is a dual addict (cocaine & alcohol) to cut a long story short he put me through hell, i helped him as much as i could, i got him a therapist, involved his family, researched cocaine addiction for 6 mnths so i was clued up & so i could understand him. i coulnt take no more so i chose tough love & told him to leave, im heartbroken & so are my kids, they loved him so much & so did i, he was a great stepfather to both of them. i got him the therap[st just b4 he left but invoved his family after he left because i was worried about him. we kept in touch & he gave me updates of his recovery which i now know were lies. a few weeks ago i was told he was back with his ex, he,s moved her in his place, i am devastated. i txt him to see if it was true expecting him to say it wasnt true but he wouldnt reply, he wouldnt answer my calls so i knew it was true. he has changed so much, he used to worship the ground i walked on. he was so loving & caring. now he has turned his back on me after 3yrs 5mnths together. im so angry & upset after all i went through with him. i think he,s not used since xmas but im not sure which angers me more coz he couldnt do it for me. iv put all the hard work in to help him recover & she is reaping the rewards of my hard work. im so upset that he,s just cut me out of his life after we had such a close loving relationship/ he,s emotionally detached & shows no remorse for his actions. i feel like im left behind in a mess while he,s on the mend (thats if he is) does this sound like anyone elses life & does it get better? thanks for letting me vent my frustration.
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