Hi all. I am married to an recovering addict who has a lot of issues. One minute he is really happy and the next he will be a total jack ass. Sorry for the swaring. I am just so mad. My husband and I have a good relationship except for his communication. He also is Bipolar. So I am dealing with that and the recovering addict. I am ready to throw in the towel. We have been married for about a little over a year. When he gets squirley he starts to pace and ignores people. When he gets like that I ask him, why are you pacing? He will respond back some times with nothing or he will say I don't know. Well he did that today. He was really happy when we went shopping together and then we had plans to go do some other important things and we came home put the groceries away and it was like he was a whole different person. He started to pace and I asked him why and he told me that he didn't know again. I said what ever you do know but for some reason you are not talking. He asked me to go for a walk. I said I can't because of the baby. It is to windy outside to take her. So he got mad and told me he is going by himself. I got the baby to sleep and went to go find him. I found him. I asked what was wrong or on his mind he told me that he was upset because he didn't want to go shopping with me because it was boring and it should be my job to do the shopping. I said the only reason I like you to go shopping with me is because you don't spend any time with me and that is the only time I get to spend time with you. See He is a computer geek and that is his life. He obsesses over them every day. If it isn't computers it is sex. He spends all his time with computers. Never spends time with the kids or me. His time spending with me is sex. Well to me that isn't what I call spening time together. I am upset today because he left and went to his mommies and daddies. He told me he was going there and staying the night, he needed some alone time and space from me. Well he thinks that is going to fix everything. He has another thing coming to him. I am sorry for laying all this out on here. I just needed some comfort from someone who could exsplain to me why he is acting this way. Does he not want to be married any more or isn't have to do with him? I am so tired of all of it. He only cares about himself. Our new baby he holds for five minutes and then puts her down. That makes me so angry. He wonders why she crys when he holds her because you don't show her affection like mom does. Mom has her all day long and plays with her and so on. Sorry I am doing it again. I will stop talking now before I get in way over my head. Thanks everyone for the support.
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