I don't get it. My husband has been sober (he is an alcoholic) for 100 days, and I thought things would be getting better, but he still has the anger and mood swings. There is no closeness or intimacy between us. Every minute he has he wants to spend doing. Doing his hobbies or exercising, or rearranging the garage. His attention span on any one thing is fleeting, but it is never focused on me or us. Has anyone had experience with sobriety and how it affects the marriage?
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