Why does this huband of mine disrespect my boundaries.It seem like Ive got to get mad and show my anger for him to get it.I know in a sense Im making it to easy for him. Im having a big problem letting go and letting God do his job.It was alot easier last year when he was in a rehab that he didn't have freedom to call that much,now in this shelter he keeps his phone and has frre access.Why can't I be stronger then Iam. I thought I was applying tough love,but how Im feeling and what others are saying ,Im beginning to think that there is something I need to be doing,but what? I don't know why I continue to let him do this to me. He is not even in this house,but his manipulation,control still takes up residence.I know it is partly my fault,I just don't know how to stop this.
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