Families & Friends Of Addicts Support Group

Addiction affects more than just the individual. This community is dedicated to the families and friends of individuals suffering from any form of addiction. Mental health professionals are increasingly considering alcoholism and addiction as diseases that flourish in and are enabled by family systems. Family members react to the addicted person with particular behavioral...

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He Wants Me Back

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deleted_user
I used to date this guy that was a meth head, and we ended up breaking up because I had gone clean and couldn't take the stress anymore. He's still a bit of a pothead, okay so maybe he's excruciatingly one, but he's a lot better off than he was. Job, house, steady girlfriend that can deal with him. Thing is, he's still trying to get me back. I can't be thrown into that world again, and I can't stand him when he's high. I just, I know better than to piss off an addict. They get violent, but how in the world do I get him to understand that we're only friends now, and that's all we'll ever be?
lkc9528
lkc9528
Not sure but if it were me I would just avoid him altogether.. Sometimes you can talk but they don't hear. Good luck!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
Tell his girlfriend. ;)
mgs1
mgs1
WOW! I would say he is a control freak and I would not want to have anything to do with him. Change your numbers, tell him you have a boyfriend and tell him he needs to stay true to his girlfriend. Call her and tell her you wish her the best of luck, tell her how good she is for him, etc. Let him know the two of you have talked.
Stay strong - Keep him out of your life.
joemm
joemm
Wow how loyal is this guy?
I wouldnt even want him for a friend. If your afraid of him dont call him and when he calls you mske the call short(say your busy and will call him back). Tell him your goining on a date etc.. Be plesant though He'll tire of calling you. Good luck. GOD BLESS
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