first off let me thank you all for your support with my addict husband dilema, it has really helped! i have began to distance myself from him and began to accept that we are truely over. heres my question... i have come to learn that addicts dont think like a sober person and alot of the things they say are only the drugs talking, however can they still love? after my hubby got back on pills a coule weeks ago i can see a big differance in the way he acts towards me. one day i think he loves me and the next he doesnt even call me. im having a hard time being able to tell if its the drugs making him distant and unloving towards me or if he just isnt in love with me anymore. im not saying that im going back to him (because im not) i am just wondering if drugs make you "stop loving" cetain people while you are high???? when he is sober he is loving and affectionate to me, but when he is on drugs he is secretive and acts like he doesnt care if he ever talks to me again. again, im not going back to him, i am only curious as to how addicts "love." i will admit, thinking he doesnt love me anymore kils me even though we are seperated.
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