I grew up with an alcoholic father who never tried to hide it. When I met my husband I quickly learned that he smoke pot daily. This continued until he got a job two years ago that actually does drug testing. I discovered a couple of months ago that he had smoked again, but he assured me that he was not doing it on a regular basis, this was just a one time thing. I told him then that if he lost this job, then me and the kids were leaving, no questions or arguing from him would change that. This morning, once again, I discovered that he is doing it and it's more often. I love him but if he loses this job, I'm done!! How do I make him see that he is going to lose us???
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