I think that I married my mom.
Always hollering and very controlling. I think that my mom was still much worse I could not wait to leave that house but my husband encourages me. He had a screaming issue. That has gone down a bit since some marriage counseling. Laugh your way to a better marriage was the name of the sessions. It helped and If I got rid of one after twenty years there is noooooo way I would take another mate on.
God bless and hope that you have a great second time around. It takes a strong person to trust like that again especially after being molested. I have gone through that with a friends dad. It took sometime to get over.

I have often heard this and wish that I could do that...I myself would love (and not in a creepy way) to have found a man as intelligent, respectful and hard working as my father was/is. Not that my dad is without his faults...I tend to find the opposite, heck, I married the opposite.

I had heard that my whole life, and did my damnedest not to. Ya know what, I did well. My fiance is nothing like my father, thank god. Don't get me wrong, I lov my daddy...but crist! I could do better! LOL