Hi, im feeling for a few days.. ( I think because im pmsing) but lately I've been thinking about the divorce papers. I could mention this in the breakups and divorce group.. but YOU ALL KNOW what its like to be with or marry someone with an addiction. He's still actively drinking and is not seeking any help what so ever. Still cold and emotionally distant and well needless to say i know its over.. BUT.. there is this pinch, this nag, this I dont know what it is.. I dont want to force my self if im not ready.. and i dont want to wait too long to draw out a long and forsaken emotional sentence. But when the person is an alcoholic.. and they choose no recovery.. ?? and then theres councelling, and blah blah blah.. who wants to go through that? We dont even get a long when he's sober? I have emotional ties to him we've been married and have a son together who's just turned one year. But from some of the women/men here they take them back and patch things up and there is a relapse down the road and shit still in the same boat. I want to cut my ties now.. but im still emotionally tied.. how does one cut the strings??
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