My stbx is addicted to coke. Has been for about 4 years. Of course he doesn't have the problem. The children and I do. He never did anything wrong, said anything wrong, acted wrong or just plain was never wrong. About anything. EVER. Well I turned him in to the division of youth and family services(DYFS). He needed help. DYFS told him that he couldn't be alone with the children(I must supervise at all times)or I lose my kids. This went on for a year(very demanding), until I got tired of him destroying my children and me. I left.. Now he wants me to supervise his visitation..NO WAY!!!! I told him DYFS was going to have to get someone...I told him to get help. He told me to "shut the F--K UP. That he would do what ever he wanted. So be it!!!! I don't get it. You would rather snort coke than be a part of your children's life. Who does all this hurt.. My poor children...
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