I really value everyones objective opinion here at DS ! I guess I have sort of a delimma and I would appreciate you guys help ! I received a letter from my ex. (addicted to crack ) He is incarcerated at Prison and has been there since July of this year. What he put me thru and caused total major disruption, heartache etc. the whores, everything that an over the top crack addict does to those in their life. The letter was kind of more of the same whenever he has been locked up. But this letter was different in that he is apologizing profusely and there seems to be some recognition and clarity about him ! Now my question is Should I send him a card for his birthday. It would be very non comittal because if I ever in a thousand years were to get back together, there is NO way in hell I would survive another "episode" from him. I MOS DEF would not lead him on that there was ANY chance of us getting back together. The only reason I am even considering sending the card is due to him being in prison plus the fact that he does not have much of a support system on the outside. I tend to want to nurture and take care of people and this falls in that category. Please MY Peeps, tell me whether this is or isn't a good idea ! Hugs and Love, Deb
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