please help me with this.. my ex husband did horrible things cheated, stole, lied all for his crack addiction. during our 4yr marriage he was a good man but when he relapsed he was a stranger. there was another woman and he ended up doing drugs. i dont know if he cheated before or after on drugs or if that even matters (not sure why but it matters to me).. anyway she was out of the picture as fast as she was in the picture. this all was months ago and i changed my number and have had no contact with my ex. he went to jail and now is out and clean and here comes the part i need help with. he is trying to get in touch with me, wants to talk to me, he says that the worse thing that ever happened to him was losing me.. what do i do? i still love him and so don't want to love him.. (does that make sense).. how can i love someone who treated me like dirt. after months of struggling my life is finally coming together... what does he want!!!! i didn't choose any of this and he really didn't lose anything he threw it all away.. we worked so hard to get where we were and he let it go for a whore and crack... please someone say something that will give me the strength to not look back......
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