my son is finally in jail for something that will keep him there longer than the usual 10 day simple assault charge he did on me. this time they found 3 pills on him, that was not his. so, he has to wait until he can see the general sessions court judge. the waiting time, can be up to a year or two. most people get bonded out. i am not bonding him out. however, he was supposed to have a probate hearing about drug rehab on april 2nd. the rehab is only 3 weeks long. he has some money of his own. would it be good to use "his", money and bond him out, so he can get to the probate hearing. or would it be better to have that rescheduled at a later date and leave him in jail until he goes before the judge. i think for those who stay in jail, and do not get bonded out, will see the judge a little sooner. i have gone through hell, with his violence and abuse this past year. i think he needs to sit in there a while. his disability money comes in my name, but it is his money. that is the part i feel guilty about. it is his money. he needs me to get to it, and i won't. he has threatened to kill me, among other things. i just feel so much safer with him locked up. but, when he does get out, i also feel afraid he will kill me for sure if i leave him in there. he has been shooting up meth, and that makes him real mean. what do you think? all input is appreciated. thanks
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