I have been seperated long tyme , but do on occasion break down and "help". Does anyone keep theire ex-s things at the house? A light bulb went off for me, I keep all my ex-s good clothes and shoes this way when he needs to make an appearance etc he always looks good. I make sure my family is well taken care of. Why am I holding on to his shit, I want him out of my life but obviously by holding his things prob gives him the power over me right? So my mission is to tell him yet again to get his stuff out or I will put iin the trash. Geez what the hell is wwrong with me? All he cares about right now is the needle he jabs in his arm.I do this to myself in a sordid way I keep thinking me keeping his things will make him appreciate me more..I think it is ti,e to seek therapy for myself!Thanks for letiing me go on and on..
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