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People acting like you should move on.

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How many people out there are so sick of people telling you to move on, especially people who have no idea.
I lost my mom to cancer, my brother to suicide and my ex-husband bestfriend to a slow suicide that everyone watched but really didn't think he would die so soon, I lost them all in 2 and 1/2 yrs and people are looking at me like when are you going to stop talking about Terry (brother) and Garret( ex, he was one of my dearest friends)
I try to explain to people like my own husband and my step monster to read up on the subject, there is no timeline, my husband finally said he has no clue, do any of you put up with this? and are you trying to hold your tounge like me?
God Bless to all who have lost someone and especially during the holidays. Kelly
I lost my mom to cancer, my brother to suicide and my ex-husband bestfriend to a slow suicide that everyone watched but really didn't think he would die so soon, I lost them all in 2 and 1/2 yrs and people are looking at me like when are you going to stop talking about Terry (brother) and Garret( ex, he was one of my dearest friends)
I try to explain to people like my own husband and my step monster to read up on the subject, there is no timeline, my husband finally said he has no clue, do any of you put up with this? and are you trying to hold your tounge like me?
God Bless to all who have lost someone and especially during the holidays. Kelly
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