
Families & Friends Affected By Suicide Support Group
Suicide affects not only the individual, but also the family and friends who provide support and love. This community is offered as a place for those affected by suicide to gather and gain strength from each other. PLEASE NOTE: If you are suffering from suicidal thoughts, please take advantage of our CRISIS RESOURCES, which you can find at the bottom of every page of the...
dont ever question your abilities as a mother, its not your fault. people have their own personal problems, kids parents etc, so them taking their own life is not to do with you, youve prob done the best you can,dont be so hard on yourself
You havent said how the other one died ? did they both take their ownlives or separate incidents? you dont have to say if you dont want to
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There are things within each of us that NO ONE can control. Heartaches and mental pain that only we know. Your son was hiding things from everyone apparantly because he DID love his family. They feel what they are feeling will cause too much pain...or you to be ashamed...there was something he just saw no way out of.
ALL I can say is that you are NOT alone. We have all said "What if..." in some way but the choice was NOT ours nor were we in control.
I am sorry for your losses. Parents aren't meant to bury their children. They will ALWAYS be our "babies". Just know he is now free of whatever was causing him SO much pain...and I DO believe he is watching down on you.
Hugs and prayers. Let your tears flow...its part of healing. And THAT takes forever, unfortunately. Been 9 years for me and I still binge cry from time to time.