Enlarged Prostate Support Group

Benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) refers to an enlarged prostate gland that can cause urinary problems in aging men. If an enlarged prostate goes untreated, urine flow can become weak or even blocked from leaving the bladder. It leads to symptoms of urinary hesitancy, frequent urination, increased risk of urinary tract infections and urinary retention.

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I have been dating a guy for almost two years. When we have had sex in all that time he has only ejecculated one time. Some things he just refuses to discuss. He ejeculates when he masterbates every time. He also go to the toilet at least every 15 minutes. He is 62. I am wondering if this is just normal for a man his age or what? Is it something I should try to have him seek medical attention for? Non of his meds are for an enlarged prostrate. He maintains an errection for a long period of time . Just no bam in it for him.I guess im asking cuz i am wondering if it is just me?

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deleted_user
deleted_user

I have a similar problem. When having sex with my wife, I can't climax. I get close. I have a hard time getting and keeping an erection, but once I get it hard I can keep it that way by continued thrusting - if I stop thrusting for more than say half a minute the erection is gone and very hard to get back. My wife detests giving me oral, so that is out. I love giving her oral, but she doesn't want to receive it any more. My wife will climax a couple times. If I keep trying, she gets sore - so we have agreed to make love until she climaxes twice and then that is when we stop. That is easier than having sex for an additional 40 minutes, her being really sore and me still not climaxing and then me having to give up from exhaustion.

When I masturbate, I will often loose my erection before climaxing, so I often get no relief.

Lately, my best bet for orgasm and ejaculation is a "no hands" type masturbation. Here, an erection is unnecessary. That takes the pressure off. I wrap my penis in several layers of facial tissue, then tuck it back into my underwear. My best results are by sitting in a chair just wearing a pair of white boxer briefs and a snug white undershirt [I have an undershirt fetish, by the way]. I tuck my feet under the chair. I often do this while reading online postings etc. I'll tease myself for an hour or two and then ultimately climax. I seldom gain an erection during this.
ST50
ST50

I have no problem ejeculating I just can't get any real form of errection and certainly can't maintain one.
stephenhardman
stephenhardman

Guys, do not complicate your life. If you want to have a good erection and prolonged sexual intercourse you can try special medications for erectile dysfunction. I don't believe if you will say that haven't heard about it!
Avodart, for example, is a medication for the treatment of benign prostatic hyperplasia and not only this one. You can buy it online or in the drugstore...it works even in severe cases.