I had a lap last spetember, but when the docotr realized how bad it was he cut me open almost from hip to hip and I also have a bunch of little scars around it from all the stoples they put in me to close it. Now it's getting close to summer and when I wear a bikini you can see it. I am young and besides that spot a flat stomach, where the scar is I have a lump. I know it sound trivial, and like I am to worried about my looks but I am also worried about when people see what they might say or ask. My boyfriend tries to make me feel better and says it's cool, it's like a battle scar..lol. But my question is, is there anyone else who has dealt with this? and what did you say to people when they saw it? I have showed a couple people and I can't believe the look they get on their face. I don't know maybe this is partly hard because they found out about my endo when I was pregnant and I lost the baby and it all went down hill from there so maybe that's why I am sensitive about it. It's a reminder and it's weird to talk about. Sorry I am just going on and on. Its just been bugging me a bit lately.
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