All you can do is be there for her and be very understanding of her situation. You've already done one good thing and that is to come on here to get more understanding of the disease. Have you actually tried for children yet? As there is no need to worry until you have tried as not all cases of Endo prevent your wife from concieving. If you know you both definately want children it is probably best to start straight away so that if it does take time for her to concieve at least she will still be at her most fertile. Sometimes people leave it until they feel ready only to discover that they have left it too late. But of course this has to be right for both of you. It also has to be what you really want. Have you spoken to your wife about how she feels about the situation? I hope that you both are able to concieve naturally without any complications.

Being there for her is mostimpotant. You need to realize that she is probably being harder on herself about all of this than anyone else could ever be. The other thing I would recommend is doing all the research you can.

My husband and I are currently in the same boat and while we feel like we need a few years before we have kids I am really scared that we may not have that time.

We are planning to see a specialist in endo at a fertility clinic. I am lucky that there happens to be one near us, it is just a matter of getting in. So we'll see how that goes, but my gyno who did my lap recommended this. She said he should be able to tell us better my chances of conceiving and how long we can possibly wait.

All I cans ay is hang in there and don't stop seeing doctors and seeking answers untill you find something that works for the both of you.

i agree with the girls, the most important thing is to be there for your wife. Let her know that you are trying to understand (as much as you can) as to wats going on.
Its not an easy thing to go through, most of us girls dont even fully understand wats going on with us.
Give your wife cuddles and let her know how much you love her ( that always helps) As for you dont get your hopes up yet, if you cant have babies naturally theres always ivf and adoption(thats wat me and my partner are planning to do.) Good on ya for asking for advice, and welcome to the site :)

If and when she is not interested in having sex try to remember.... it's not you... this has become an issue in our relationship...
I love my husband... I am still attracted to him... however with the pain and mood swings... sex is the last thing I want to do..it has become a chore.... I would encourage you to be affectionate with her and make it clear that affection does not always have to lead to sex... that way when she does want to show you some love she won't feel that showing you that affection has to lead to sex...she may want to show you the love but now feel well enough to have sex.... I hope that makes sense...

Just the fact that you wrote here shows that you are very understanding,i'm sure she appreciates it ,for me that's what i need most from my husband just to try his best to understand that i feel bad but it has nothing to do with him(it's not always easy)
Having children was very hard for us it took us 10 years to finally have a daughter,we went to all kind of fertility clinics but the thing that worked for us was a hormone call serophen it's suppose to make you ovulate more and after the second try it worked, we now have a healthy 2 years old, so don't give up hope.

Just the fact that you have come to this site seeking answers shows that you care and want to be understanding and that to me is one of the very most important things you can do for your wife. Just be there for her. There are so many ups and downs, feeling good, feeling crappy, and they vary from one minute to the next (literally). I agree with the others also. Don't give up til you've tried. And if at first you don't suceed, try try again. But be patient. She may not feel up to 'it' a lot and that's one of the downsides to this disease. Be an encouragement to her the best you can let her know you're there through the "sickness" part as much as the "in health" part. I've been blessed with a sweetie pie of a husband and we've been TTC (trying to conceive) for 3 years now. When I get down on myself and feel like giving up hope, he's been so caring and understanding.. Always wanting to help me feel better. Sometimes all you can do is sit and hold her while she cries. You can't take it away, you can't make it all better, but you can be the strength she needs when she needs it.

Research, research, research...you're obviously "there" for her, so make sure you guys go into it knowing ALL your options. I battled endometriosis for 6 years, followed all the doctors advise...kept having surgery after surgery, every 6 months to a year...medications, menopause, horrible side effects. I finally got fed up and went to a homeopath. I followed her advice for 6 weeks, still staying on the "pill" as was suggested always by the doctors...within 9 months, I was pregnant, on the pill, with only one ovary. I had 3 subsequent pregnancies, when the doctors told me it would never happen. Also, be VERY careful with all the high powered hormone therapy they will want to treat her with, not only will it possibly turn her quite evil...she runs a RISK of breast cancer. Do try to get pregnant, you may still have time. Get more than one opinion, also. Good luck.