I am in a committed relationship with my boyfriend of 3 and a half years. When I am not in pain sex can be great. But literally most of the time it is still painful to a degree. I love my boyfriend incredibly but he is one of those guys that wants sex in the morning and at night. He honestly seems to not be able to get enough. I know he loves me but it seems to be affecting him that I do not want to have sex as much as him because of the pain. He is understanding and will stop if it is too painful but I feel like it might be hurting our relationship a bit. I have a history of sexual abuse and he knows that and he is sensitive to it all but I feel like he thinks I am not attracted to him. I just don't feel up to it because of the pain and my own poor self image because of the bloating. I told him just because I don't want to have sex I still love him and he was like....ok...and I said because that is the way he makes me feel. It really bothers me, plus I have IBS so I need advice. I really need support and other people that have this to give me feedback asap. I feel depressed just thinking about it. Thanks for reading this.
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