does anyone else go through phases of thinking that they look good and thin for a little while, but then you look at yourself and suddenly see yourself as really fat? and then after a little while you feel thin again, even though your weight hasn't changed? i always go through phases like that where my feelings about my body go up and down suddenly. what can i do about it? it you've seen my recent posts and journal, i've been getting a lot better lately and have been able to completely trust my boyfriend when he says that i am too thin and i need to gain weight. i know that realistically he's right, and i even gained two pounds because of it... our goal is to get me at a healthy weight, which would require me to gain 8 more pounds. i've been okay with it, but today i started feeling chubby and like i need to lose weight... those two pounds feel like twenty. it's like my eyes see fat on me that doesn't exist. i told my boyfriend about this earlier tonight and he said that my view of myself is completely wrong and that i'm a lot thinner than i think i am. what can i do?
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