Hello, I have a problem and i really need some help... i have had quite a lot of friends with eating dissorders, but this was a long time ago and we were all in it together.... now, my best friends little sister is very very ill, her parents have only just started to listen to people and are trying o help her, but from what i am hearing and seeing they arn't helping at all, and i am so scared they are going to make things worse, my best friend is the one who spends most of her time looking after her sis, and making her food and trying to be there for her, but recently she has discribed times to my friend about overdoses, and how horrible she feels and how she isnt eating anything anymore, and if she has to she just throws it up... my friend has been finding food she is ment to of eaten wrapped up in the bin, i have always been interested in eating dissorders and i do know a lot about them, i think i noticed before anyone that something was wrong only, because my emotions and feelings are involved in this i find i dont know what to tell my friend, to help her sister.... i want to help more than anything, this girs cousin is currently extremely sick and in treatment for anorexia, she is very very very sick, and although they have been writing to each other, my friends sister has said how lovely the hospital is etc, she doesnt quite realise that that hospital is costing her cousins parents a fortune, and that the hospital she will be admitted to will not be anything like it.... i dont know how ti help, if you where in my friends sisters shoes and where feeling like this, what would you want your sister to do or say to you... they are very close and they love each other soo much, its just she doesnt know what to do, and is scared shes gonna make things bad.... her parents now know, and are going to tell her sister this week that they know she isnt well and that is why they keep taking her to the doctor... what do you think ? sorry ive rambled... she reminds me so much of me when i was her age, and im soo scared for her, and sad that she feels so bad !! xo
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