You are actually lucky. I have had a hell of a weekend trying to get a pair of trousers because a size 6 is too big. People on this site want to get better and will give advice to and support others on getting better but will not give tips on how to lose weight.

Ouch!
Nice to meet you. Have I misinterpretted your question? It seems to me you're asking us for ideas to live a healthy life. I don't believe you're asking us for tips on how to lose weight. Toning up is different isn't it?

Please, everyone, let's remember what Doug asked of us: be considerate of eachother. No one with any kind of eating disorder is "lucky". It's not about what size trousers you wear, it's about how you treat your body.

Use weights that helps tone. Cardio won't do that. Thats all I can say I don't want to get in trouble but I didn't think it was right that no one wanted to answer your question. I hope that helped a little bit.

I like using those weight balls... they're like softballs that weigh a few pounds... and lifting them slowly at different angles.

Not sure if its gonna work for you but it always helps me. I turn on my favourite music and start dancing the way i want. even if you are in the worst mood, dont stop at least for ten minutes. you can slow down but dont stop. Enjoy yourself, express everything you feel through your movements, let all the negative feelings go away and BE HAPPY!!! Take care!

thanks guys, i wasn't asking for tips on how to lose weight, it was just about toning up, if i considered myself lucky i wouldn't be here, sorry if i offended anyone, am just trying hard to stay on the straight and narrow as my mum would say, and don't want to relapse, have been feeling horrible lately, sorry again