ok now i have just go in from work and one of my staff members is about my weight if not smaller and every time i see her, well see triggers me and i start thinking whats her secret, how dose she stay so slim. Now see has been working for the company for over a year and tonight i realised i have never seen her eat, like i have seen her play with food the way i do but not eat. So tonight after her lunch break i went to count some cash and see if her meal was in the staff room bin and it was. I also know she (like me) is very touchy about her weight. I think i need to address this but what do i do, as this could be me just being over sentive to her behaviors as i am some how wanting someone in my life to go throug this with or something maybe? I can't call her parents without notifying my bosses whitch is a step i don't want to take as i don't want her to losse her job or have everyone on her back 247 i know i wouldn't appreiate it. Yea, so what can i do?
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