Alright, so I haven't posted in quite some time and I really just need to vent and get this out there. ONCE AGAIN! I am not a moderator or CL here, I am just Jessi Blues, that's it, not above, nor below any other member of DS. I am however going to speak my mind for a second because it seems quite obvious to me that there are people that still think that although post may be titled "poss. trigger" "trigger" "bad day, could be a trigger"... what have you, I'll speak for myself, I respect that and appreciate that, giving me the option to open or not. What I do not expect nor like is when I chose to read them and notice other members are condoning, or so it seems to me, PRO/ANA-MIA This down right DISGUSTS me! Please at the very least, step out of your own zone for two seconds and remember that each and everyday there are new members coming on here. Some that have left pro-ana/mia sites, seeking POSITIVE support. Some are new to meet a new support network. Some come on here after losing a loved one to this disease. I'm almost in tears. I have invested a lot of time into my friends on here that struggle every day, some every second of everyday... and reading shit like "go on the juice diet" has just brought me to tears. I am crying right now. I am crying because many of the people on my friends list have LOST PEOPLE to this disease. None of this is a joke! NONE OF IT! And to mearly suggest diets because someone is having a bad day, yes, we ALL have bad days... come on guys!!!! This isn't funny. This is a life threateniing disease. And so help me god, if that one post that I am refering to gives a single new comer an idea to actually try some assignign diet, I will have lost it! So please, STOP trying to sneak in anything but pro-positive support to recovery and help! Not more and more self destruction. For me to cry over a post made... well is a LOT! By the way, I have reported that post and hope and all of it's comments have been removed for the board.
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