Domestic Abuse Survivors Community Group
Domestic Abuse Survivors is a group for survivors and their support network to air their past and present experiences of emotional as well as physical abuse. It was established to give a forum on a subject society tends to shy away from.
please accept my apologies for not being around much
i have found it quite hard to even think about my issues and i think i have been hiding from the hurt by avoiding coming here
however, i have been thinking of you all
lately, i have been making contact with people that i had lost contact with while i was married and so isolated
i have briefly explained the reasons for my absence of in some cases, 20 years and guess what! noone is angry or upset with me!!
they have all been so wonderful
im still having bad dreams as i explore my emotions further but now i dont seem to get so upset by them
i think i am learning to feel and except the hurt and pain and then i let it go
i feel really quite positive most of the timw now
thank you all for you support
just knowing you are there is a help
i shall be here more often now
judith x
i have found it quite hard to even think about my issues and i think i have been hiding from the hurt by avoiding coming here
however, i have been thinking of you all
lately, i have been making contact with people that i had lost contact with while i was married and so isolated
i have briefly explained the reasons for my absence of in some cases, 20 years and guess what! noone is angry or upset with me!!
they have all been so wonderful
im still having bad dreams as i explore my emotions further but now i dont seem to get so upset by them
i think i am learning to feel and except the hurt and pain and then i let it go
i feel really quite positive most of the timw now
thank you all for you support
just knowing you are there is a help
i shall be here more often now
judith x
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i'm so glad to hear you're doing so well, sweetie. i'm one who hides, tries to bury things, so i know where you're coming from. we can only really open up to others when the time is right for us, so please, don't apologise. we'll just be happy knowing you're doing well & hearing from you as you feel able. take care. love, Di. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Judith you really neverleft you were always with us. I am glad that there is support here for you. It sounds as if you are trying to work a lot of things out. You are now getting back with friends. It is a slow process. Always remember this group has love in its heart for you. Mike
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you are stars!!
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