My stbx nad I have had a communication problem for years...and I am willing to take part of the blame, but I asked a couple of years ago if she would go to counselling , cause at the time I felt things were slipping away. All she said was you set it up. Well, I never did and since last fall I've noticed she has been separating herself from me. I work away from home and since xmas she has cut ties with me right off, besides calling me to say its over and she will not go to any councelling. After xmas she found an older man and has vertualy abandoned me and does not spend much time at home taking care or communicating with my boys. WHY WOULD SHE NOT EVEN TRY TO MEND THIS 26 YEAR MARRIAGE?( I was willing) very confused
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