I have just found out that the whore my husband left me for is moving out by the end of the month,he has also lost his job [being made redundant the end of the month],i sent him a msg to let him know i was sorry to hear about everything going on in his life,he then sent me back a msg telling thank you for the msg,he then also mentioned about all the stuff that was going on i.e that he,d split up with her,i also told him that the divorce paper,s needed to be signed,i asked if we could meet up next week to sort all the paperwork out and get it all over with,then he turn,s round telling me he doesn,t wanna divorce and want,s to try working on our marriage,i,m in hospital yet again!but now i,m also all over the place emotionally yet again! he was quick to let me know he didn,t wanna stay because we were more like brother and sister than husband and wife,now he wants to talk about getting back together! my head is all over the place! he hasen,t really bothered since before christmas,even with our son,now he wants to know? i have shared 25+years of my life with this man then because he couldn,t have sex on tap he starts up e-mailing a woman who went to his school thirty odd years ago! he didn,t even remember her cuz she is older than him! but he,d been e-mailing her for almost a year!in that time he,d also started calling me names and putting me down,this once gentle man who had held me in his arm,s, when i found out how ill i was, when i was scared and thought i was going to die,this man who kept me going when i couldn,t get my head of the pillow through severe pain and when i was literally climbing the wall,s in agony, turned into a complete stranger,he started being nasty verbally telling me to get on with it! and going on about his lack of sex knowing full well that i couldn,t have sex whilst i was in agony,afterall who wants sex when your feeling rough!well he had been planning to move out into his own flat to sort out what he wanted in his life,then within days he moves his whore into his flat and ruining christmas for us as well as the new year! the new year i had made a vow would be my year!! the year when i was going to get every milestone that i had vowed done,he tore my heart out and now he wants to talk to me,i am all over the place emotionally,i am being made bankrupt and he now wants to talk? what does he want now? to gloat or to get back together,can i forgive him will he stray again when the lack of sex start,s rearing it,s ugly head again? i dunno what to do?yes i still love him but i am now getting everything sorted out and getting on with my life and now he,s sending msg,s telling me he,d like to stay as man and wife? please can someone tell me what they,d do cuz my heads all over the place i am also now flat on my back as i had a fall and had to have surgey today because i broke a bone in my back i don,t want to go through all this hell again what if he strays again? can i go through all this hell again? i just dunno what to do next.
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