My STBX was over last night to use my phone because he was having trouble with his internet and it was costing him a fortune in minutes. I was nice. I wasn't there. I came home, he was still there, computer out on the kitchen table and him on the phone. I cooked dinner for the kids and myself, sat down and we ate dinner. He gets up to leave and says, "Thanks for dinner." He said I should have offered him dinner. He also was surprised that I talked to his sister who has not been talking to him. I explained to him that she is upset with him, and he had the balls to ask "For what?" Why does he think that we can still do things as a family when he made it very clear that he doesn't want to be there in that way for me. Also, why does he think that everyone is okay with what he has done. It is only him and OW that feel that way in reality. I just am having a hard time today.
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