Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group

I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...

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my stbx left me on xmas eve after 33 yrs..filed for divorce he got served this week and has sent it back notorized..i'm in the process of selling my home (i get 100%) of the sale so will have about 40k for downpayment on one i'm buying..doing a second walk thru on the one i want tomorrow and talking to banker about getting preapproved
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How are you doing? Have you stopped crying yet? Any kids?
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Good for you on the new home. Sometimes I think it wuld be nice to start fresh in a new home. But I think for my kids I need to stay where we are for now. That's if I get the house in the settlement.
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yep crying has stopped..stopped last saturday of easter weekend..something happened and the light bulb went off finally,,still pit in the stomach once in awhile but i'm doing better than ever ever expected
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