My youngest daughter told me that my ex asked her if she wanted to meet his girlfriend (the whore). She told him she is not ready to meet her, thank God. He didn't even ask my oldest because the youngest warned him that he would not get a favorable reaction. He then pointed out to her that the whore's children have agreed to meet him. What was the point in that? Was he trying to lay a guilt trip on her for not agreeing to meet her? Was he trying to say that the whore's children are better than her? It just made me furious to think of him peddling that bitch to my girls as some great person. They know the truth of the situation and both have told me they will never forgive her for what she did to our family. The problem is that I know they will eventually meet her because he will most likely insist on it at some point. This makes me sad and brings up all of the pain from when he first left. I feel like I have lost alot of ground towards recovery because of this. How do I deal with this other woman in my children't lives? I don't want to appear to them as the jealous, jilted ex-wife. I wish she would just die.
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