Husband came by today and wanted to figure things out on what we have because he is filing for divorce. I finally have to let go of the little hope that maybe he would want to go to get help and save the marriage, but obviously he wants out. It got very ugly, verbal and physical. Our 17 year old son had to stand in front of me and ask him to leave and come back when he was cooled off. He even tried to bully our son, but I said to leave him alone. He took one of our checkbooks and tried to take car parts he bought with our money. He got so mad that I wouldn't let him take them that he grabbed me and yelled at me, that's when our son stepped in. He said the car parts were more important to him than me. I finally said, take them then, but he then was going to throw them out the window from our upstairs bedroom. He didn't after we asked him not to so instead he kicked one downstairs. He yelled, "this is why I hate your mother". I told him the reason he hated me was because he felt guilty for all of the cheating, all of the women, all the whores he was with while in our marriage. He then got reallly ANGRY! and came at me, but our son finally got him to leave. SO sorry our sons had to see, hear, and experience this. No kid should have to deal with this.....I will need to speak to a lawyer and just let him go. He is determined to have his freedom. I will need to let go of any hope and move on with letting go! Please keep me and my 2 sons in your prayers.
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