Why do our stbxs always put the blame on us for everything that is wrong in their lives? My ex put me through hell for 1yr. of divorce proceedings, living in a 10 by 10 room with a friend because I could not afford to get my own place due to over 1000 dollars a month maintenance. After all that time of mental abuse, ie. manipulation,control,saying she wanted to try again,only needing me when she was in trouble(financially, emotionally when her goodtime friends werent there)she dropped the case and abandonded the home and my daughter. She asked me to file an uncontested divorce, so that I can have custody of my daughter and pay for the home she left behind. I have recently done that, but she is blaming me for it taking more time than she would like. I give her what she says she wants, but I am still the bad guy in everything that happens. Doesnt make any since to me at all. Any thoughts?
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