
Divorce after Twenty years together Community Group
I want to start something for those of us that were married for a long long time. I think that we face a little different issues than those who were dating for a few years or even married for shorter period of time. Being married for so long we have older children some have grandkids dealing with teenagers and their reaction to the divorice empty nesters dating after 40...
Telling him I know about OW

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Ok...I have been to the lawyer and on sunday I plan on telling him I know about the OW. I think he will be in shock, I have all my ducks in a row. All that division of property and stuff. I am sure he will turn it all back on me,,,thats how it always is, but ya know...no matter how indifferent the marriage has been the past year he chose to cheat. I did not cheat...he did. It was his choice. I did not make him cheat! It may actually have been indifferent because he was cheating. I don't know for sure how long the OW has been around or if she is the first. Things should get interesting! Keep me in your thoughts as I keep all of you!
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