I am still stuck in hospital after breaking my back,i am now thankfully on the road to recovery,in case you don,t know,my husband left me two week,s before christmas to have time to himself, yeah right! he had planned all along to move out and get his whore over to live with him,which he did! but he didn,t tell me until a few days before she came over,to cut a long story short it turn,s out his whore is a bunny boiler and now he wants to get rid of her!!,but here,s the real doosie, the bugger wants to talk about getting back together only after recieving his divorce paper,s![he,s also just lost his job!}to begin with i had been thinking well who know,s,we might be able to work something out but only on my term,s! well this morning whilst the nurse,s were helping me to sit up my mobile went so the nurse brought my phone to me,i could not believe the message that sod had sent me! and boy am i ticked off! he has the nerve to txt me saying,"i can,t believe your getting me for unreasonable behaviour after all i,ve done for you!" now that has been the push i needed! i have allowed that man to walk all over me for 25+years now he has the brass neck to come at me with that? i am trying to get this sorted out and now he think,s i,m being unresonable? how dare he! i am now done with him! how dare he walk outta our family home telling me "i need space" when he planned all along to get his whore over to live with him!, now it hasen,t worked out he think,s he can just waltz back into my life after all this crap his put me through! hell no! i was wondering if it would be worth trying to save this marriage,if i,m honest i didn,t think i could cope without him,now i,m alot stronger and alot happier and despite the cancer i know i,m better off without him,he was the one who walked out not me! he is the one who was sneeky and sly,he was the one who didn,t like it cuz i wouldn,t show him my debt or bill,s in case i got yet another moan at from him and at least the house is in my name and him ? well who cares,if i am to remain alone for the rest of my life then so be it,i,d rather be happy and alone than misrable and unhappy!and there was me thinking i was still stuck because i didn,.t know what i wanted,i must have had a knock on my head!! how stupid of me,it,s another form of control and i ain,t letting him control me anymore!
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