So many of us here are victims of our ex's midlife crisis I got to wondering. Lots of people I know tell me "she'll come running back to you in a few years." Time marches on they don't get any younger. So does anyone here have any experience with them after a couple of years? Do they realize some day that they made a mistake or do they keep running? I know that my stbx wife is only thinking of the right here and right now. She's been so miserable for so long that the only relationship that gives her happiness is one with a guy 27 years younger and 1500 miles away. Of course, she likes the prospect of being able to pick guys up too but that is all so fleeting. Eventually, doesn't everyone want someone to grow old with? I can't believe the youngsters are going to hang around as age starts taking its toll on or ex's. What do you think?
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