So I been married 31 years,, and am very unhappy and want out,, afraid to talk to husband, has a temper so ive been lil miss submissive the last few years.. dont have it in me to fight.. i went to a lawyer for a "free consult:" who states he would send him a letter stating he needs to vacate.. now my husband has a temper,, i think will go over like a lead balloon,, i really dont want to humiliate him, but Im a coward.. he's gonna be pissed! Any suggestions from men or women what the best action is? I tried to get him to go to therapy a year and a half ago and he dismissed that.We have not spoken of it since.. he must know i'm not happy..should i just come out and say "i want a divorce" or a letter? i'm not looking to hurt the guy i just want OUT! without the wrath of god or a huge scene I told the laywer he had a temper and he told me to keep a phone handy in case i needed to call police!! WTF? Then i suggested i leave the note and go over a friends for the weekend,, that was a "No" too because i'm abandoning the house? come on..I really just want him to buy me out he can keep the house! what should I do oh wise ones?
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