A few weeks ago when I spoke w/ "her" she was telling me how my H always made noise and talked when her kids father was on the phone because he wants everyone to know that he's there. Any time he calls and she's near I can always tell, he's very distant. There was a message on my machine last night from his boat ins co looking for their payment. I sent him an email with just the info-nothing more. Now I sent him another email with alot of other stuff in the other day but no response. So he called this morning and confirmed he got both but proceeds to tell me "she" checked online w/ the bank and the check cleared. Why is he telling me this, I have nothing to do with that bill. I was just passing on the info. So, the more I think of it I think it's just another way for him to prove to her how much he cares, that he can call me and be distant and talk to me in front of her because now their secret is out. I worked myself up into a tizzy and almost called him-but I didn't. Do you know what I mean, it's like he's rubbing it in my face and further proving his love to her.
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