Well folks, just wanted to give you an update. Lord knows I am going to need your support now. My husband and I talked last week and he agreed that he would seek help, and I was ever so thankful. Well in matter of days things have changed. On Thursday I had him over for dinner with my son and his fiance hoping to bring us all back together. My son had mentioned to his fiance how he missed all the family dinners we used to do. I thought that this would be appropriate because we were going to try and work things out. He left almost right after dinner. He didn't even want to hug me or kiss me goodbye. If he really wanted to work this out/loved me, you would think he would show some affection towards me. He doesn't call me all weekend, so I went to see him to say what that heck is going on? He tells me he left right after dinner because he can see that things aren't going to change. He claims I haven't changed. Well guess what, he really doesn't know me then! I said fine, we have one loose end to tie up and our son is getting married in two weeks, after that we will file jointly and I left. You know what, I was all rattled and anxious before I got to his place, but when I drove away, a real calm came over me. I guess I really did know what I needed to do. HUGS MY FRIENDS! I need you! I did add this to my original please read post but I felt that by starting this new one hopefully it would be read more. Thanks again for indulging me.
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