My son is 13. He has been told by his father that he has a new best friend, he doesn't miss me at all (4 months separated), and that he loves me, but isn't in love with me! My son is angry and horribly sad and won't let go reconciliation. He flat our refused counseling or talking to anyone except me, but I am concerned I am not enough! He said he can't deal with this anymore! I believe he is afraid to be angry at his dad (maybe because he thinks he will w/drawl his love, d/c visits, afraid of the unknown...I don't know...they are just my guesses! I have assured him constantly that it has nothing to do with him! I talk anytime he wants! We hug and snuggle and exercise together. What am I to do? This is all so hard on me, but watching his pain and agony just kills me! Will we get through this? What can I do for him?
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