I am in the process of getting a divorce after 25 years of marriage. Both kids are in college, and both have their unique problems. My husband is busy trying to divide the two of them and is patently favoring the older kid, including money and employing him in the family business. How are you folks dealing with this age group. My older child barely speaks to me, my younger barely speaks to his brother. the hurt is palpable. Frankly, I think this would have been easier if their father just died, but I am the bad guy here since I initiated this. Doesn't mean the pain is any less, but you know . . .
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