Well here i am a year down the line. I was married for 22 years, and thought my life had come to an end, last year, when he got up and left to be with another woman. And now one year later, would i change it , would i go back, never. Soft touch that i am had him to stay over christmas to be able to see the kids, and you know what i couldnt wait for him to go. Of course the other woman, is long gone, and guess what he has realised that the grass isnt greener and he would like to come home and try again. Well sorry i am not going back. I have a new life now, and havent been as happy in a long time. I remember coming on here in those early days, reading the postings and never thinking I would get through the pain and agony that myself and my teenage kids were going through. I just wanted to let any newbies know that just bear with it, you will get there, I know you dont think you will, cos i didnt, but i have. And now my future is in my own hands. Some of you will take them back, i would have done initially, and i wish you all the best, what ever decisions you make.
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