my divorce define who I am. I am so much more then a soon to be single mother of four. I was at a church dinner last night, and I had such a good night. I realized how happy I am, how much support I have, how loved I am. and it hit me about how happy I really am, WITHOUT HIM BRINGING ME DOWN ! I am living the correct life. I have not done anything to be ashamed of. I have wonderful kids, dogs, and I am finally starting to see me as wonderful too. and I realized, that I am not going to be defined by this divorce. There is so much more to my life that I am finally at the stage to be able to concentrate on. I am not sad anymore. What happened happened, because my husband decided more excitement was more important in his life, then his family. But that does not have to define me. I need to work on making me the best me possible. just some thoughts............
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