Am I the only one that thought this was disrespectful and rude? I have been divorced since Aug. 1. '07 and the ex has been and still is living with the OW for 3 years before that - so he cheated on me. I know I should get over it but at the moment the ex-MIL lives across the street (I can't afford to move) and I see her often - even though I do try to avoid her if I have to wait for her to leave. It bothers the hell out of me that she allowed the OW in her house for birthdays, holidays, etc. before we were even divorced. I was part of this family for 30+ years! I wasn't perfect (who is) but I wasn't a bitch! When I told the ex how I felt he said 'well, my mother wants to see me'. Well, I know to let this go but had to make sure that is wasn't just me thinking this was odd. Maybe it's me - they make me feel that way all the time!
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