I love my H so much, which is why this hurts so bad. Why would I want someone who has taken so much from me? Staying together is not an option. He has moved on with OW. He, of course, says he is not closing the door, but that he only loves me like a sister and friend, not a wife. He has so much to fix of himself, but yet, he went straight to her. This is killing me. I am so depressed and feel so alone (which I am not). I am the one hurting myself now, not him. I feel like it's me, not him, even though everyone tells me the opposite. Any advice for moving on and letting go would be appreciated. I just can't get past this peice of the puzzle. I feel like I can't even be a good mom because I am totally consumed with this. Help!!! Thanks.
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