He dropped that bomb at the end of Nov. He has not moved out, but is in spare bedroom. I thought we had a good relationship - as did anyone else who knew us. This comes as such a shock. I have read the article on divorce coming from out of no where - and this is where I am. I question everything. What happened? He did have a tumor in his head removed in 2009 and radiation to his head. His prognosis is now good. I don't know if radiation or the cancer affected him, as he has been distant for some time. He kept saying it was work - blah blah blah. Here I am the one who co-signed all my kids student loans, my income is a third of his, and he has all the power to walk away, buy another house etc etc. My grown kids are shocked as well. In this economy can't sell the house without losing our shirts, and I can't afford the house on my salary. So all in all it has been a crappy holiday for me. Am seeing a counselor and am on anti-depress meds so I can function to some degree. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
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