My daughter just called me to tell me that she had just talked to her dad and that she was going over there to get money and to spend time with him and the OW. She told me that he told her he wanted her to start coming to his house on Wednesdays to see him. Then she told me that he told her that she might as well bring her tooth brush and pj's because if the weather was bad that he was not going to let her go home she needed to just spend the night. Amy said to me in baby talk, "if it storms, I want to be at home with my momma". I wanted to say 'why don't you tell your dad that". She was baby talking me and telling me she loves me and to have a good day. She knows I am irritated at her. She told me last night that she would like to give me some advise, she wanted me to quit being a nag, that she could understand why daddy gets so mad because I am always fussing about money. That is because this man constantly is causing trouble, either drugs, or being in jail or now leaving me, I am always worried about how to make it. My daughter pissed me off saying that. I told her that this nag wouldn't say anything else to her about money but if she came home and there was no car insurance paid or no food for her to eat not to say a word to me. Then she said, oh mom, lets be immature and get an attitude. This girl is 22 years old talking to me like this. She tells me I have no backbone. She abuses me just like everyone else. I could kick her ass out and tell her to find her own way or go live with her dad and Courtenay then what would she do. I love her dearly but she can be such a little bitch. (sorry). I could get a roommate that helps me pay bills instead of expects me to takes care of them. Everyone is loving being around dad because he is happy and makes everyone laugh while I'm bitter and angry and working my ass off to keep a roof over my head. I try to talk money with the daughter and she says do we have to discuss this every day, I told you I would give you money, but then she never does. I know I stress about money, I have an excel spreadsheet and I go by it to the penny but if I didn't I wouldn't have money to pay bills at the end of the month. someone has to be responsible. When I get paid this Friday after paying rent I will have $13.74 left until that man gives me my $100. that sucks while he is taking his 2 girls out to dinner on this lovely Wednesday night. Life Sucks, I hate it. I'm gonna have to find yet another part time job looks like. This is so unfair.
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