I just discovered my husband has retained lawyer for divorce after 25 years of marriage. I just recently took him to hospital and he was found to have blood clots in lungs. I took his clothes home to wash and I found a receipt for payment to lawyer and 2 receipts for deposits in a savings account with his brothers name on it. To say the least I was very upset. I knew this was not good. I waited till he got home and then waited 3 days to ask him what it was all about. He admitted right away to wanting a divorce and made a story up about savings. He later admitted that he had received a "gift" from his uncle and did not want me to know abot it. Well i decided I needed to seek an attorney so I met with one today. He informed me that he will get half of my 401K, will have to sell house and give half, car and give half. I will have to pay half of all of his extensive medical bills and I might have to pay him alimony. He is on SSDI and is pretty much in the clear. I am screwed. I am just ready to give it all and just leave. How fair is this? I have worked very hard for everything I have and looks like it will all be gone. Hope you can give me some insight. I do not like being in this dark place that I am in.
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